My Story & Work as a ‘Service-to-Others’ Soul

My Story & Work as a ‘Service-to-Others’ Soul

I was a highly sensitive and aware child. I intuitively understood that humans experienced an exquisite combination of joy and pain during their lives. It was evident to me from very early in life that both in my own family and those around me, life was often overwhelming, painful and confusing. Growing up on my grandparent’s farm in a rural Virginia community, I had the opportunity to spend a lot of time alone in nature. It was here, in particular, that I awakened to my own inner spiritual life often having conversations with what I knew as God. I felt I could feel God’s touch in the sunlight and wind. I could hear God’s voice in the leaves as they moved in the trees. In fact I grew up in the Christian tradition and sang plenty of old time gospel hymns in the church choir with my mother.

In early adulthood I had the great fortune of being introduced to the works of Edgar Cayce and his Association for Enrichment and Enlightenment (ARE), Dr. Ernest Holmes’ The Science of Mind and a number of other Religious Science teachers. More personally, I began receiving healing work from two different spiritual teachers, one from the Barbara Brennan School of Healing and another whose work in astrology went far beyond the constructs of astrology, which is often the case for spiritual healers and teachers. Non-traditional powerful healers are often found behind a wide variety of certifications. Both of these two providers were a part of my life for over 20 years.

In the last few years I emerged as an international consciousness and spirituality teacher. My clients work with me to grow and sustain a deeper and richer relationship within themselves and to establish an increased sense of wellbeing in their lives inclusive of relationships and careers. My work includes spiritual tools across many paths and narratives reflecting traditional healing spiritual arts, quantum mechanics, sacred geometry and other associated consciousness themes and tools.

Related to my teaching and presentation work within the field of leadership & organizational wellbeing for US companies, I published Working ‘Well & Feeling Good: Mindfulness Affirmations for your Work Life’ (Master Key Press) in 2018.

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My work is perfect for you if…

1. You feel called to be more in charge of your own life choices and who you want to be this lifetime
2. You are ready to access your inner wisdom and release family and external influences that no longer fit you
3. You are ready to add more spiritual tools to your growing toolbox for self-care
4. You want to add on to or go beyond the use of traditional counseling work by adding spiritual tools and perspectives
5. You want to know more about who you are, why you incarnated this lifetime and experience activations to help you harness spirituality and consciousness to manifest more of the life you want to have

As a spiritual intuitive, I innately know what hurts human beings and I know what heals and sustains them. I arrived to the planet very naturally aware and awakened to the human condition. Some of you who will read this will be very similar to me in this regard. This means that, as an empath and highly sensitive person, when requested, I can easily get sensory information about you and your life. I intimately ‘read’ your energy in such a way as to tune into who you are and what influences your life at this time.
I am not alone in this work. In fact, many of us are here today to offer our way of serving humanity in this very fashion. We are a small and specific community of healing arts professionals and our work is growing by leaps and bounds given humanity’s current intensely evolving condition. Humans are being called from within to develop methods for self-inquiry and self-healing in ways not seen on this planet in thousands of years.
You are now being asked to take full responsibility for your wellbeing this lifetime. In fact, you were born with this powerful and life altering capability. You just need someone to show you how. I am here to assist you in this process.
I am also a mental health expert. I have a Masters of Education (M.Ed.) in Health and Human Development & Community Counseling and spent the first 25 years of my professional life in the counseling and wellbeing industry, both as a licensed psychotherapist and as a healthcare management professional in a variety of small and large settings across the United States. While I thrived in my career, I knew the time would come when my intuitive skills and healing arts mission would ask more of me. This is that time.
For the last few years I have been helping individuals across the world understand more about who they are and their life purpose at this incredible time in human history. Within my healing arts community, inclusive of counselors, reiki masters, yoga teachers, healing touch providers, psychics, consciousness teachers, hypnotherapy practitioners, past life regression teachers and many more, we know that increasing number of people are ‘waking up’ to an inner voice and inner life that is asking them to heal from within, be of service and connect with others in meaningful, heart-based ways. We call this ‘Unity Consciousness’. It is exactly for this very time on the planet that I am here. I am in service, as a ‘service-to-others’ soul to support human beings to achieve a level of peace, compassion and love in their lives that has been missing for modern humans.

Here is what I know about you. You are feeling called to develop a rich inner life from which to heal, nurture and sustain yourself from day to day. From within this private sanctuary you will begin to engage yourself at the start of each day, quietly drop in throughout the day and then gratefully return at day’s end. How do I know this? I have known since childhood that my life would be dedicated to loving and supporting human beings in very personal ways. In fact, it was one of my spiritual teachers who told me that the time would come for me to show others how to create this sacred space for themselves.

Now, after many years of professional accomplishment in psychological health, human wellbeing and spirituality practices, I show you how to develop accelerated personal wellbeing using your own innate spiritual life. This work will powerfully change your life forever.

During our work together we will harness ancient and modern spiritual health tools inclusive of guided imagery, mindfulness meditation, affirmations, energy healing, crystals, herbs, essential oils and others to create a daily perspective for you increasing your sense of thriving regardless of the external conditions in your life. After our work together, and as you practice, you will begin to respond to life in ways that create positive change and new foundations for you, your work and those you love. What are you waiting for? Let’s begin.

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TESTIMONIALS (Love Notes)

What are people saying about my work:

“I feel that I am healing and releasing a lot of shame and guilt that I have held onto about being who I am just from seeing how okay you make it to be the way we are.”- Nikki

“I came to Amber seeking clarity for current obstacles in my life. She helped me to bring information to the forefront of my head that I didn’t even know I knew as well as insight into specific aspects of my life that I was having trouble narrowing in on.”- Ann

“Based on my own wonderful experiences of consults with Amber, I booked a session for my 24-yr old daughter. It was her first ever experience of a psychic/spiritual session and she was blown away at the information shared and importantly, the direction given.”- Mark

“You are divinely gorgeous! Thank you for your kind words. We are kindred spirits on this wonderful big adventure called life! I love the unique, authentic and soulful work you offer!!! Many blessings to you sister, you are shining bright!”- Michelle

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1. Individual Suburban Light Consultations (60minutes/30minutes)

You are feeling called to develop a rich inner life from which to heal, nurture and sustain yourself from day to day.
I show you how to develop accelerated personal wellbeing using your own innate spiritual life at a beginning, intermediate or advanced level. During our work together we will harness ancient and modern spiritual health tools inclusive of guided imagery, mindfulness meditation, affirmations, energy healing, crystals, herbs, essential oils and others to create a daily perspective for you increasing your sense of thriving regardless of the external conditions in your life.
After our work together, and as you practice, you will begin to respond to life in ways that create positive change and new foundations for you, your work and those you love.

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2. Individual Suburban Light for the Work Life Consultation (60minutes/30minutes)

Your work life is important to you. It is a HUGE part of your life and who you came to be in this lifetime. No matter where you are in your working life you are ready to develop work life wellbeing skills to accelerate your sense of purpose, service, work performance and overall enjoyment. I show you how to begin or go further to cultivate a work life and career that fulfills your sense of life purpose and meaning using fundamental, intermediate or advanced spirituality based concepts and tools.

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3.Individual Suburban Light Create Your Daily Practice Consultation (60minutes/30minutes)

You have some or a lot of awareness and experience with spirituality practices. There are some that fit you better than others. At this point, you are looking for a ‘recipe’ of sorts, a daily practice that suits you perfectly. This session is for you! During this work we will put together a daily practice that you will fall in love with the more you engage it and make it your own. I will help you identify the spiritual approach and elements that ignite your sense of wellbeing each day. I will take your experience, background, time limitations and anything else that comes up in the session into account in order to build a practice that you can do for years to come.

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4. Individual Suburban Light for Quantum Activation (Advanced Work)(60minutes/30minutes)

If you are reading this offering and it has any resonance for you, this is your session. You are part of a a small but significant portion of human beings, often referred to as ‘awakened starseeds’ who are now connecting to aspects of themselves across the living akash and kahonic. This community is are aware that ‘all is now’, are understanding constructs such as the Flower of Life, Merkabah, Ark of the Covenant, Atlantis, Lemuria and many other narratives. This collective identifies with the terms ‘5D ascension’, ‘new earth’, ‘the event horizon’ and is increasingly interested in galactic motifs. In this work with me, we engage your energy body template and work with your own guidance system blueprint around any aspect that is important to you for your growth. How do we do this? As an advanced consciousness embodied soul and channel, I employ a wide variety of tools inclusive of energy activations, quantum mechanical light, color and sound motifs, sacred geometry, light language, crystal being wisdom, Angelics & Ascended masters, and galactic journeys. Indeed, you intuitively know that you came this lifetime for this level of work and life mission.

Always with my love, Amber

Today my session fees are 165.00/hour 85.00/half hour.You may reach me here on my Contact Page, on Facebook, via Instagram, or please call me at 571-969-6904 or email me directly at suburbanlightworker@gmail.com

Alchemy, Holography & Me

Alchemy, Holography & Me

Alchemy. Some of my readers are ready to go deeper on topics like this one. If you are one of them, this one is for you. If you are unsure, just read through what is here, trusting that you will digest it over time without giving it much thought. This brief primer will simply act as a gently activating consciousness trigger for what you innately know but had no one to speak of it with in your current lifetime.

I write increasingly of late about integrating and balancing your personal wellbeing and third dimensional life with your increasingly sensitive and awakening self. While this remains to be of the utmost importance, visiting highly conceptualized understandings of your energetic design is refreshing. It takes you just that much further into what you know about yourself and why you came this lifetime. Our community needs this remembrance.

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As such, the following is content that I dashed off early in this week when asked about teaching consciousness content to my clients during their sessions. I was asked how teachers like myself conceive teaching alchemy today. I thought it was a super question. Believe me, there are millions of answers to this because humans often learn via metaphor that reaches well beyond the physical sciences. Here is mine:

‘Here is my narrative presentation in response. I use that phrase on purpose as so many of our community have not yet understood that there are infinite narratives in human words describing alchemy (and all associated constructs). In fact I view the process of embodiment and all that goes on during it for every embodied being across all kingdoms (mineral/plant/animal/human and beyond) as alchemic by nature.

Why? Because the atomic energy movement that is antimatter/zero point/matter (quantum mechanical basics) and the dynamics involved for maintaining speed/vibration/magnetic resonances IS the platform for what is termed alchemy. No ‘healing’ ‘magic’ or ‘mastery’ happens that is not based on this source-designed platform. I had to say this in order to address your actual question.

The newer component to teaching/emanation is exactly this: more humans have now incarnated who are evolved to a point in themselves such that they recall this understanding or it is triggered to be recalled supported by the procession of equinoxes, plasma releases and other cosmological releases arriving to earth.

Now that there are a growing body of us including you, we’ve reached a ‘tipping point’ of collective embodiment such that our group soul monad emanation power (engagement with this reserved component of the organic planetary matrix) regardless of human role has been achieved. You could be a homeless person on the street masterfully engaged or a pastry chef or government official for example.

Your question is about how this is knowingly taught when it is through those of us knowingly serving as teachers via the Alchemy School construct. Specific to that: In my work two keys are engaged. I am first of all an accelerated emanating being. As clients come (they are me as they arrive as holographic mirrors), the alchemy for emanation is increased regardless of whatever verbal content is happening per client ‘needs’.

Secondly, as a teacher, I am vibrating, among other harmonics at the same moment, in the human kingdom as is the other embodied mirror ‘client’. My responses to their expressed ‘needs’ (and my own intuitive direction) allows me to verbally express and teach some of the alchemical constructs ‘they’ can then go out and engage (recall their own mastery) for themselves.

So, the client human presentation is of less concern and more a vehicle to assuring them to recall their own mastery (which means my own alchemical mastery since they are me). Understand that ALL embodied beings are already alchemical masters or they would not be in form on Earth/Terra/Gaia. It is dense here.

You have to be masters to be here. So yes, clients come for ‘healing’ and what they get are reflections (emanations) of their own mastery for sovereignty and DNA key-codes for self mastery.

Yes, the human language I apply is highly encoded because of who I came to be this incarnation and ‘fits the request’ from the client. Often helps that I am a mental health clinician for many earth years this lifetime (and others it seems) by background.

I hope that what is posted above takes you a bit further in your own conceptualizations and constructs for what makes up your amazing energy body and that of the entire cosmos. It’s all a matter (smile) of atomic design that is, frankly, outside of our ability as human beings to conceive in its totality. We do have the ability though to get at the fundamental frameworks in order to participate consciously in this alchemy.

In fact, a large part of your sovereign journey on earth today is calling you to figure out how to consciously do so. When you do, you quite naturally and wordlessly emanate this one unto another. THIS is how Earth becomes Terra becomes Gaia. Do you now see?

Always with my love, Amber

If you love learning this way and want more of this integration in your own life, please set up some time with me. I would be honored to support you and your wellbeing as you navigate this lifetime. Namaste. 
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Balance 3D Living with 5D+ Awareness

Balance 3D Living with 5D+ Awareness

It is time that we came to terms with our emotional wellbeing. A lot has changed. We feel stretched, wrung out, run over AND exhilarated, empowered and energized. I know.

You and I know that we came to this lifetime to be of service to humanity and the planet.  Some of you who read this are doing so openly and directly, others of you are doing so in more behind the scenes ways. Still others of you are wondering why on earth you arrived again to this cosmological exurb as things are so notoriously painful and challenging you wonder if you took a wrong turn through a wormhole. I sincerely get that last one.

You are among the most exquisitely aware and sensitive human beings on the planet alive today. Because you are an embodied soul operating within a human nervous system and psychological framework,  your ego might still want to think I paid you a compliment. To a certain extent it is noteworthy as you are beyond amazing. You have courage for miles and the consciousness skills of a cosmic ninja. What dampens enthusiasm however is it is simply not easy living here in the third dimension. For any of us.

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I am grateful beyond belief to be able to write to you here. Your presence brings me comfort and a sense of community. This said, I am about to remind you of something extremely important to your third dimensional existence. You have had a lot of trouble figuring this living thing out precisely because you were NOT supposed to come here and fit in. Understand now that we already have 85% or so of the human population doing that ‘fitting in’ thing. You came to hold a different tune, or harmonic as it were. Sometimes this difference is excruciating.

Here is what you need to know: Our kind needs a very particular balance and integration in our daily lives.  How we go about achieving this has not been made into a package on the market, program you can purchase or pill that you can swallow. YOU are individually creating this for yourself.

I should know from whence I write. I’ve been watching and listening to our kind extensively over the last three years. I’ve been in numerous online groups with thousands of members and only hundreds, both as a member and as an administrator. I’ve co-hosted the former Facebook Live show ‘Practically Quantum’ and am now co-host of ‘Esoterics Today with Amber & Sitara’ on SoundCloud.

Over those years and in those spaces I saw all kinds of emotional overload and fantastical ecstasies played out. As I was coming to grips with my own inner landscape, I even dabbled in a few unwittingly myself. Whew. We are on the front row, as forerunners in the human kingdom, having some of the most incredible inner and outer occurrences and synchronicities. We are understanding a quantum level of gnosis not seen on the planet in modern history. It’s going to get messy.

Regardless of how you refer to it, human growth, evolution, ascension or a horizon event, etc., our exquisitely aware and sensitive community is developing both in numbers and consciousness quickly. Our daily routines, work lives and relationships are all coming under our microscopes like never before. Indeed our entire understanding of systems, cultures and programming has come under self-scrutiny.

As such, this is a call out to you to be very thoughtful about your well-being. Be especially careful with regard to your emotional and mental framework. Stay steady and dedicated to what needs to happen on a daily basis so that your life functioning at baseline stays in tact. Focus on your working life, family life, friendships and activities that bring you pleasure. Find more of your kind and community. Nourish your body with good whole food and rest regularly. Be sure to harness nature’s curative and grounding influence too.

What you are coming to understand about why you are here, who you are, and the nature of the universe/multiverse can put an enormous amount of pressure on your daily life given your role as one who holds enormous understanding, compassion and light. How you are able to hold your energy patterning through these transfiguring times is going to become a model for many as the years pass. THIS.IS.WHY.YOU.CAME.

All humans are increasingly awakening to their inner lives and the call to develop sovereign living as the move toward unity consciousness calls to them. This process is going to go on for anywhere from hundreds to thousands of years depending on the collective timeline chosen. You will be there, at this phases, to say, “yes, I know, and this is how I did it. This what I did in order to be grounded and practical through my own growth in this area of my lifetime.” This understanding is a large part of how you will go on to serve those around you. It is for many of you, the reason you came this time.

Wishing you all the joy of our brilliant times, ease through the birthing process of a newly arriving consciousness and the ability to be there for one another.

Always with my love, Amber

ps. I know you have grown a lot lately. I know you wonder what is going on from a spiritual/consciousness perspective. If you’d like to work with me to create more emotional wellbeing through your spiritual practices, please send a contact message or email me at suburbanlightworker@gmail.com or call 571-969-6904. We can get a lot done in one session very often. xx

On Shedding Programming: It Takes Time

On Shedding Programming: It Takes Time

So many humans today are feeling pervasive overwhelm and anxiety about who they think they should be and how they should be spending their time on earth. 

In my experience both as a psychotherapist and consciousness/spiritual growth teacher I know it helps to learn about real life experiences where growing in conscious awareness and wellbeing is concerned.  In particular it helps to see what others have done to move through the heavy encumbrances that occur simply by living in the world today.

All of my readers are at baseline highly sensitive humans which is a broadly accepted classification for those who perceive, feel and have deep awareness of themselves, others and the world in which they live. Some of you have awarenesses beyond this world. Many more of you are healing artists or otherwise spiritually oriented expressives. You have exquisite perception and depth of feeling.

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It is not a surprise to you that the human experience is often pain-filled  with accumulated unconscious themes and programs playing out across many lifetimes here on earth. As such I thought you may appreciate a brief exchange between a new colleague of mine in response to something she posted to which I replied.

The following interaction is about my own shedding of the heavy (industrialized nation) programming that says we should pursue ‘having it all’ with little regard for our personal, family, community and planetary health and wellbeing.

Janna: This morning I awoke wanting to ask you this: do you recall when the shedding “transition” began for you? For me, I would say it started slowly in December 2007, picking up momentum here and there, and now, full integration. Thank you for your wisdom!!

Me: Well the messaging was more cultural versus familial for me. Plus I had a sense of inner personal pressure due to things I wanted to exceed from my family experiences. I pushed myself (and did for years) plus had a healthy dose of southern-woman-people- pleasing going on.

It took to my mid thirties to really begin to understand what was me and what was not me (mine). Many of us who read this are highly sensitive humans and have similar patterns. Therapy yes! Yoga yes! Fitness yes! Letting go of relationships that did not sustain me came in my later 30’s early 40’s. I’m also a psychotherapist & consciousness teacher (as I awoke to my intuitive and clair-senses abilities) so I’ve been devoted to self awareness and healing self and others most of my adult life. I’m 52 now.

As I let go of people, places and career constructs that did not support my whole self, more of the real me emerged. I began falling in love with myself and all existence heavily over the last 5 years in particular. Thanks for asking.

Shedding programming is as unique to your energy framework as is your fingerprint but once you catch on to it, the drive to do so begins to naturally takeover to a large extent. Your job then begins to feed your soul and let the rest take care of itself. Get support, find your tribe and fall in love with your incarnation this lifetime. ❤️

Always with my love, Amber

Join us on the ‘Esoterics Today’ Podcast !

Join us on the ‘Esoterics Today’ Podcast !

Today, along with my ‘Esoterics Today‘ co-host Sitara Lightbringer, I recorded my first Sound Cloud podcast episode that will play on December 21st, 2018 on the Winter Solstice.

It is an hour-long monthly show that centers on all the varied energetic consciousness narratives currently on the planet. No subject is off limits.  It is a conversation between Sitara and myself that will include amazing guests over time.BA30930F-A171-4848-BAB5-F946BA40EF32.jpeg

Our show is more ‘coffee talk’ about modern esoteric living on a daily basis than it is ‘hey listen to all the weird and wild things we can do as psychics and healers’. Sitara nor I have an interest in the spectacle of our awakened states and more of an interest in normalizing them among human beings. We are you.

We do this because so many of you are awakening to your highly capable, intuitive and alchemist-selves.

Thanks to timed triggers, all humans are having upticks and new experiences with their inner awareness and skills. This was a time in humankind that has long been prophesied.  It is often challenging to recognize, integrate, and calibrate this evolutionary condition what with the routines of daily life.

After all, we still have friends, jobs and families to negotiate. Meals to be made, physical fitness to maintain and bills to be paid. As has always been the case in this human school, much is being asked of all of us.

For some years I’ve known that  a podcast was going to be in my future. Often a vision takes time to manifest itself. This one took about five years to become a reality.

I knew that I was being asked to ‘go public’ with what seemed to me, especially in prior years, fairly expanded and sometimes highly unusual, private mystical consciousness content.

As many of you are or have been, I was alone with my exponentially growing awarenesses. With some effort and trial and error over recent years, it has come as a great relief to find a collaborative international community of others.  We come from every corner of the planet.

You see, before I emerged as a modern consciousness teacher of esoteric principles, my public-facing work had been conventional and comfortable. It had a fairly acceptable ‘seal of public approval’.

Moving into the public domain as a conscious teacher was initially less comfortable especially as I matured out of classic (and generally accepted) spirituality themes and into deeper esoterica.

This role as teacher, I was informed by my guidance, was one of a way-shower. A forerunner to an enormous growth spurt in human consciousness. It would require me to courageously speak up and out about what I had come to understand just for myself about esoteric living in these modern times. Gulp.

Luckily, as you will find out when you listen to the podcast, I’ve found a truly engaging and accomplished colleague in Sitara who has an infinite knowledge base from which to share. Plus we have a lot of chuckles and fun together. Bonus!

You are growing so quickly now and in need of your community too. You are looking to engage, connect and integrate your experiences. Please consider putting us on your podcast list. Listen to us whenever you need to feel ‘at home’ with your Kind.

We are Service to Others souls as you are too.  We are healers, wayshowers, forerunners of every kind. From every narrative. We are planted all across this planetary grid.

Always with my love, Amber

 

Start Here: Own Your Thoughts & Feelings

Start Here: Own Your Thoughts & Feelings

 

I double-dog dare you to own your thoughts and feelings. I will wait right here while you say to yourself “what is she talking about? I totally OWN my thoughts and feelings.” And then when a tiny hint of curiosity occurs as to why I write this, only then are you to read further.

You are now ready to begin to imagine that for most of your life your thoughts and emotions owned you. Your mind is now bending. Perfect. Your mind will need to bend in order to flex away from what you were taught. You were inadvertently taught to allow your thoughts and feelings to run your life virtually unchecked each and every day. And those thoughts and feelings drove your behaviors. If you continue, a word of caution…

This mind-bending comes with an entry-fee but that cost is no where near what you have already paid  in terms of pain and suffering due to uncontrolled thinking and feeling and subsequent actions by this point in your life. If you are reading this you are slowly becoming aware that you have paid a huge toll for having unconsciously given over to your thoughts and feelings across a lifetime. What I can tell you is if you self-responsibly harness your thoughts and feelings no matter your life’s circumstances, you will gain serious speed in achieving a sense of well-being.  And this sense of well-being is characterized by an unprecedented sense of sustained joy, comfort and lightness of being.

How do I know? Because I too spent most of my life here on earth in much the same way as you have: each day working with a combination of personal circumstances, chattering thoughts, and ever shifting emotions. Non stop. How and why that changed for me is a story for another time.

Back to the entry-fee for making this deep change. My guess is that you will frown at the term ‘self-responsibility’. You have been told since childhood, and usually when you disappointed someone, that you are responsible for yourself. And you were told to be self-responsible by family members and a society that had no real understanding of what it meant either. Along with many of your peers, you made it this far having more or less achieved and succeeded without having a clear understanding of self-responsibility and its role in thoughts and emotions. If you were satisfied with the results you achieved, you would not be reading this.

Here is what I want you to know about how to self-responsibly begin to own your thoughts and emotions:

  1. Understand that thinking and feeling are innate attributes, among many, to all human beings to be consciously used by you to experience, perceive, and navigate in the world
  2. Decide that in order to feel better, you need to think better in the moment
  3. Practice being aware of your thoughts and feelings by noticing them throughout the day and practice shifting away from negative-based to positive-based thoughts and emotions in the moment and notice the effects this practice has on you
  4. Commit to using your thoughts and feelings to support your sense of well-being

It may help you to think of managing your daily thoughts and emotions as hygiene similar to brushing your teeth and grooming. When you practice doing so enough, like anything else, it becomes a habit. Somewhere in your practice you will begin to notice that you feel more ease, peace, and softness in your life. While much will stay the same, other things will begin to change. People will notice and will ask why you are so calm and seem happier. Then, do us all a favor, tell them what you have been doing.