Here is How to Heal your Love Life

Here is How to Heal your Love Life

I know you are exhausted with your inner life at times. It seems to demand an inexorable amount of energy. I totally get this. I go through this too. Some days it takes sheer will to stay devoted to your path. Each day brings a myriad of opportunities to participate in low vibe outbursts (check), satisfying but costly eye rolls (check), or simply the feeling that bed is the only safe place to be (check). Check.

If you are in an active love relationship with a mate of any kind right now, godspeed. I could just end this post right there. I sincerely wish you (and me) very well. This is especially the case if you and said mate have not already trolled the depths of human relational misery and worked out those kinks in a real and meaningful manner by this point. We’ve incarnated and fallen in love at a very potent time on the planet.

Even IF you have taken a flashlight to those shadows together you may be getting surprised right now with what is returning for another go-round, another even deeper review and clarification. It’s almost unbelievable to me how much human living is spent unwinding karmic patterns in the presence of a beloved ‘other’. Which brings me to my point.

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If you have not already arrived to the fundamental understanding that your mate IS you on some level. I recommend you get that nailed down now. Once you do this things will get a whole lot smoother and make a lot more sense to you. NOTE: For this post, I am not addressing those of you in highly dysfunctional situations where someone or both of you are acting out in dangerous or criminal ways (although the same truths apply with deeper teaching needed). I am addressing the most common relationship challenges.

Here it is: When you agreed to come to the earth this time, by soul contract or blueprint you brought with you that which was not quite resolved (evolved) from other existences. You also brought attributes and accomplishments you would need here in ole earth school which is often my sweet relief. You are after all, ascending/evolving/growing through this human kingdom. It is what we do here otherwise we do not come.

You also need to grasp the Law of One. Right now. Simply put, there is nothing that is not you. Or everything is you. Same difference. Your sovereignty this life time hinges on your adoption of this construct and your ability to ACT on it. Every day. As often during the day as you can. No, not just in yoga class, at the meditation center or during a reiki session. All the time. At work, at PTA, the grocery store and on the freeway. It will take practice.

A word on becoming sovereign. I can’t stress enough how this very word is triggering you right this moment. It is laden with magnetizing vibratory encodement– as all form (and words are manifest form) is, to set your consciousness on a path towards it. Reread what I wrote there. Sovereignty IS a condition for passing through a 3rd dimensional living experience into a unity consciousness manifest fourth density/fifth dimensional life experience while in the body your soul is wearing right at the moment.

All this said, you attracted (magnetized) and are holding your mate in your holographic template as an aspect of yourself you are working on now. You did this by usually unconscious choice, but choice none-the-less. Claim your responsibility for doing so as quickly as possible. Next time you will be even more conscious of your mate choice but guess what, you will still be surprised at the shadow aspects that will come flying up at you with that one too. This is the third dimensional relationship life.

When you do as I have suggested above something truly miraculous happens. NO not every one lives happily ever after with their mate. That’s pretty much a pile of programming crap. What WILL happen is that you become exquisitely responsible for your choices in that relationship. THIS is the miracle. You become devoted to yourself, your embodied soul-self, in new ways: communicating with as much love, forgiveness and compassion you can muster. Yes, on some days that’s not much. I know. But the more you practice, I promise, the better it gets.

You will naturally become less interested in what they did TO you or what they said TO you or what was not done etc. When you see your mate as yourself you become increasingly devoted to self love and its full expression. You begin to get curious about what aspects of yourself are being mirrored to you for healing. You will start acting differently toward said mate. When you do so, you are healing the condition of yourself that you brought to this lifetime and needed to heal/recover.

What I’ve noticed personally and have seen in friends and clients over the last couple years is that once you hop off that frequency or ‘song sheet’ that you were on before– arguments, frustration– the usual suspects of suffering– the ‘other’ starts appearing differently to you. You will ask yourself if something has changed in them. No, something has changed in YOU.

I’ve seen couples resolve and grow closer in this process and I’ve seen people split in this process. Both are beautiful choices as they are a perfect reflection of who you came to be and what life on earth is all about today at this time in the human condition. What I can see in my own experience is that new intimacy can grow. I can also see that when the soul contract with the mate is complete, they move out of our lives. We move them out naturally and with tons less drama. Unless of course, you are still exploring drama as a human motif. If that’s the case, you’ll have plenty of it.

I hope this post has strung a few constructs together that can be practically meaningful for you today. I write this as I do everything with my love. – Amber

Please take a moment to set up a session with me should any of this need support. We are all in varying places in our consciousness growth and spiritual practice.  I am here as a professional and experienced mirror for you.

 

 

 

Hate & the Highly Aware Soul

Hate & the Highly Aware Soul

Our kind often has trouble with hate. As healers, wayshowers, lightworkers, gridworkers and other highly sensitive awakened people we often avoid acknowledging the low vibratory and dense personal experience of hate. What follows is my own experience with it and how it transformed my life.

In writing this post I’m hopeful that you are acknowledging and then healing this very common planetary emotional construct in the third dimension. As with all energy manifestations, hate is only light defined as shadow content, but light nonetheless.

I now understand that in avoiding the subject of hate, we make ourselves vulnerable to exploring a severe limit to our own power to come into self love. And it is exactly self love that triggers engagement with Unity and Christ Consciousness in these times of planetary fifth and beyond ascension.

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Twenty years ago Isabelle told me that I could not know love if I did not know hate. She was one of my consciousness teachers for about twenty five years. As a highly aware, compassionate and perceiving soul I resisted her proposal and balked at any idea that I was capable of hate.

She pointed to extremely painful experiences with humans in my childhood and asked “didn’t you hate the people involved?” No, I did not I told her. I understood them. As an awakened child I knew why they acted the way they did. I was one of those souls who was able to thrive in childhood even in the face of family turmoil.

Then it happened. As I turned forty I lost my best friend. We had known each other since age eighteen. I lost her not to death but to our own subconscious choices to move away from each other and explore other parts of living.

That is a very nice way to describe what occurred. The change was sudden. For me it was quietly violent. It affected me in ways that took years to understand. Then one day it hit me. I hated her. Big time.

I had been trying NOT to hate her for years. We made sad halfhearted attempts to stay connected in a new way, from a distance. Isabelle asked me when the events occurred if my love for my friend “broke”. I was hopeful it had not, so said “no” but I distinctly recall I was not telling the truth.

When the day came that I realized I hated her I simply stopped connecting. It was painful to hate her but it became more painful to pretend that I didn’t. Once I realized that I had discovered hate, I called Isabelle and told the truth as I now knew it. That call came about five years after the events had unfolded, now twelve years ago.

Through that experience, now mostly healed, I was propelled to new heights for setting healthier limits and boundaries on my relationships, especially those from childhood. While I did not experience hate from childhood experiences the way Isabelle suggested, I most assuredly now responded to those events in a number of new ways.

One way was to narrow others’ access to my life and energy. I am now extremely thoughtful about who is in my life and why. I manage my energetic field with much more awareness now. I protect my energy body on a daily basis depending on the day’s events and various settings.

Within two years of the difficult loss of my friendship I  married a man who, in addition to all of his traits, has incredibly tight boundaries. Sometimes overly so. By living with him and witnessing him, he has taught me a lot about what it means to properly care for myself relative to other humans. He is the first generation child of a Holocaust survivor. He knows of what humans are capable.

While he can be compassionate and forgiving he has elected to stay fairly shuttered to avoid what he would consider intrusion from others. At times he serves to protect my interests even when I do not perceive particular risk. While I am still prone to be quite inclusive and engaged with others, this experience has been life changing. For the better.

As a highly aware and empathic ‘Service to Others’ soul I am  naturally motivated and devoted by blueprint design to love and accept humans as they are. My compassion and forgiveness is unlimited. If you are reading this I suspect this is the truth for you too.

It is notoriously difficult for our kind to figure out how to balance our human need to create a sovereign and healthy life when we are designed within a Service to Others construct. My experience of hate, while one of the most painful adult lessons I’ve experienced this lifetime, has been an important teacher. Isabelle was right. I could not fully understand the power of love, particularly self love until I explored it’s twin, hate inclusive of self hate too.

We are all souls this incarnation who arrived from Love and fell asleep to it.The rest of the Cosmos operates on the frequency of Love (Unity as One with Source). We agreed to explore pain and suffering (Separation) along with the miracle and beauty of living on this gorgeous jewel, Mother Earth.

We are now remembering Love. The time finally arrived. We do so by acknowledging what we found here in our lives. Hate is one of the experiences we found. Look for it in yourself. Bring it to the light. Doing so will transfigure you and your relationships, which then transfigures us All. It’s what you came here to do.

Always with my love, Amber

 

Your Own Quantum Planetary Service

Your Own Quantum Planetary Service

First my story. Just this morning I found out that a child died two days ago at one of my local elementary schools. The child died, I was told, by being crushed by equipment. A terrible accident. Later in the day, while I was attending a play, I was called inward. This is what usually happens when I am being engaged by my Light Council.

I was asked to create a supportive geometric form filled with violet light. Then I was to call to mind the child’s parents, whom I’d never met. In my mind’s eye I saw two parents in extreme grief as well as family members and friends around them.

Once I had the form complete, which happened in moments, I was asked to send it to the family, placing it around them. I did as I was directed and then I left.

This is Service. This is light work. Lightwork. This is what I do and you can too.

I shared this story with you because you, the highly sensitive and aware empathic soul are asking “what’s next?” You have been riding the waves of change in your personal life which have included changes in relationships, work and personal awareness. You have added in daily habits that are supporting you to live more fully and authentically.

You are and continue to face intense shadow content, physical symptoms and sometimes thrilling and weird new information about who you are. Who we all are. You have fallen down rabbit holes for days on end discovering esoteric historical themes, cosmic story lines, holography and geometry.

You’ve explored color, sound, frequencies, wavelengths and octaves. You’ve fallen into love with yourself in new ways. And each other too. You’ve developed top notch perceptive capabilities, some of which you still can’t mention to other humans around you.

I get it. All of it. This is me also.

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When I tune into the portion of our Collective for whom I am a New Earth Teacher, I hear and feel a readiness for emergence into yet another level of service. This level of service encompasses methods and destinations previously unconsidered.

I perceive your readiness to serve in grand ‘large scale’ ways that you never thought was possible. The reason you are now wondering about it and ready for it, is because of all the work you’ve done to make yourself ready. So, what are you ready for?

Before I answer that question I have to position the following theme. As an embodied soul, just by living and breathing, you are a Key Holder. Your very DNA and energetic framework is loaded with information for our current Now time.

You are by design a forerunner and wayshower. This simply means that you are in the earlier waves of humans consciously growing rapidly in spiritual consciousness to such an extent it has changed the very fabric of your humanity. These changes are without measure in today’s most accepted sciences.  Although quantum mechanics is catching up with us.

Those of you reading this already know most of the above material. You understand that without really trying, as a natural Service to Others soul, you are changing the expression of humans on earth one unto another. You reflect the ancient mirrored mythologies of Lemuria, Mu and Atlantis, for example. You understand somewhat your place in this Grand Cycle we are in today.

Thanks to released programming, collapsing timelines and personal higher self (selves) exploration, you have a better sense of what your are truly capable and why. The time has now arrived for planetary grid work and light work by any and all names. And you are just the exquisite souls to do it. What am I talking about?

It’s fairly simple really. It is about harnessing what you have come to learn are your best service strengths and using them in new and unique ways in order to serve in a planetary support fashion. This service is accomplished using a huge variety of free energy tools be it crystals, reiki, sacred geometry, color rays, chanting, angelics, ascended masters or any combination of these and other extraordinary skills.

You have likely incorporated many of these tools for your own healing and that of friends, family and sometimes clients. Now is the time to realize that you are being asked to use these to help heal the Collective of humanity and our planet. While it is true that Gaia is an ancient living being, she is most assisted by your love via service.

What does this look like? Here are a few more examples in my own daily life. During my frequent walks in my neighborhood I send love and appreciation to the land and all of her inhabitants. Sometimes I focus on trees, other times grasses and then at other times to birds and other animals. I also listen for their messages to me.

A couple months ago when I was on my way home from food shopping for my family I was called by my Light Council to send healing energy to Syria. I live in the USA. What did I do? Within moments  via clair senses and using sacred geometric forms and color rays, I built what I determined to be an energetic system to join with that which was being sent by others.

It was to be held in place by quantum vibratory magnetic planetary energy conditions via the love being sent there by many of us at that time. Never forget the power of the phrase ‘where two or more are gathered in my name’ from the Christian Bible. I’m sure this expression exists in many religious texts across the world.

In another example, during the Standing Rock series of events in the US in which humans were putting themselves in danger in order to address sacred land and water from a pipeline, I routinely sent my energy to stand with them in spirit as well as call on the Divine Violet Flame of St. Germaine to be held over all involved.

How is any of this possible? It takes a willingness to wonder, to explore, discern then practice. Most of all it takes sloughing off the self-limiting beliefs heaped upon us at birth and beyond. It takes a level of commitment to remembering that we are one unified field of existence with our own energy signature with in it.

Most of all it takes sovereignty. A dedication to self love and love of others even in the face of imperfection wobbling to hold your own vibratory range, your own personal energetic framework stable. We are each of us living a third dimensional life. But what can occur is your service to the planet, where it is needed and when it is needed.

My suggestion? Start small. Let your imagination and love be your guide. Learn to listen for and pay attention to the call to serve. Let no one tell you what is and is not service. Trust yourself most of all. Create YOUR way of serving that matches you perfectly. This level of alignment to self provides the most precise impact when service is requested.

Eventually you will be called to the work. This is why you came. The ‘ping’ that you get will be unmistakable. You will, as I do, drop your current thoughts, concerns and worries and for just a moment, few minutes or other span of time, construct then send your brilliant love, healing and protection forms anywhere they need to go.

Congratulations on achieving readiness to explore or go further in your level of service to humanity and the planet. You see, this is how New Earth, fifth dimensional living is established. It’s amazingly beautiful. Just as you are.

Much love, Amber